Life From The Summit

View Original

Ep. 28: Holiday Traditions:  3 Ways to Grieve What’s Lost and Find Joy in What’s New

🎄Do the holidays feel like a bittersweet mashup of “remember when” and “what the hell do we do now” as your traditions evolve (or disappear altogether)?

If your family traditions have changed over time—thanks to divorce, loss, kids growing up, or life just being life—this episode is for you. Whether you're grieving the past or figuring out how to create something meaningful now, this episode is your permission slip to grieve, honor your past, and reimagine.

🌟 This week, Michele dives into 3 tips packing with practical coaching tips and mindfulness practices to help you face the emotional rollercoaster of shifting traditions. From honoring your grief to deciding what truly feels joyful and aligned, you'll learn how to let go of what doesn’t serve you anymore and create space for new, meaningful traditions—without adding more pressure to your plate.

📝 Grab a journal or some scrap paper to try out the simple reflection exercises and mindfulness meditations shared in this episode.

🆓 And don’t forget to grab this week’s free download to guide you through these tips and practices.  

🗝️ Key Takeaways

(5:24) Tip #1: Allow Space for Grief

  • Why grieving lost traditions is a healthy part of moving forward.

  • A heartfelt exercise to honor memories and validate your emotions.

(13:11) Tip #2: Find What Feels Aligned

  • Letting go of traditions that feel more like obligations than joy.

  • How to identify guilt traps and make space for what truly matters now.

(20:15) Tip #3: Embrace New Traditions Slowly

  • Why small, intentional steps lead to the most meaningful changes.

  • A gratitude meditation to ground yourself in what’s possible this holiday season.

(24:19) Closing Reflections

  • Grieving is normal, letting go creates space, and new traditions can bring deeper joy.

  • A final meditation to set your holiday intentions: May I honor the past, embrace the present, and welcome the future with an open heart.

WATCH/LISTEN TO THE EPISODE

YouTube

Hello Audio

Spotify

Apple 

Stay in loop!

REFERENCES FROM THE SHOW

💗 Free Episode Cheatsheet

💗 Episode 17:  3 Key Observations on Change and Transition

💗 Patty’s Monkey Bread Recipe

SUPPORT THE PODCAST

If you resonate with this episode, please remember to take a few seconds to leave a rating and review, and share the podcast with other Gen X’ers.  

Also, if you’re enjoying The Gen X Shift podcast, please consider donating to help Michele with the tech, equipment, and resources needed to produce this podcast.  The podcast is a one-woman, one-dog show right now, so every bit of support goes a long way. 

#thegenxshiftpodcast #thegenxshift #lifefromthesummit

Stay Gold, Gen X’ers . . . .