Ep. 34: It’s Never Too Late: How Curiosity & Ditching the Bucket List Can Create Big Life Changes with Sue Willoughby
You’re never too old . . . . Whether you’re at a certain point in your life where you’re questioning ‘is this all there is?’ . . . you don’t have to give up. I want to give people permission to explore.” ~ Sue Willoughby
Come on an epic journey this week of curiosity and self-discovery, where you will be inspired to ditch your bucket list in favor of just getting out there and trying new things!
Sue Willoughby’s story of resilience will have you mesmerized.
Growing up as the only child of an alcoholic mother and divorced parents, Sue learned early on about being curious and entertaining herself. At the age of 17, she came out as a lesbian to her mom–with a twist that makes her coming out story rather unique.
Then, a couple of years later, as she struggled with a teenage breakup and figuring out who she was, she attempted to take her own life. NOTE: around minute 30, Sue talks about her suicide attempt. We dive into the topic of suicide and suicidal ideation, along with thoughts on how to have better conversations around suicide.
💗 If you or anyone you know is experiencing thoughts of suicide, please contact 988–the National Suicide and Crisis Line.
Over the last several decades, Sue has worn a dizzying array of hats–from DJ to roller derby ref, from realtor to coach. Her story invites you to constantly try new things and never succumb to just one identity around who you are . . . especially in life after 40 when we’re wondering, “Is this all there is?” Because no matter how old you are or where you are in life, you’re never too old and it’s never too late!
And for those who aren’t watching on video, please enjoy these awesome photos of Sue in her days as the roller blade ref known as Raging Whoremoan! (You can’t make this stuff up!).
BIO
Meet Sue Willoughby, founder of Willoughby Coaching, where she helps women over 40 break through personal barriers using the transformative power of Equus Coaching. Through deep, non-verbal connections with horses, Sue helps clients gain insight into their communication and leadership styles.
Raised by a single alcoholic parent, Sue learned resilience early, came out at 17, and overcame dark times to build a successful career. With a lifelong love of horses, she’s crafted a coaching approach that inspires bold, authentic living. From being a DJ and standup comic to a private pilot, Sue embodies fearless living and is here to inspire you to do the same.
🗝️ KEY TAKEAWAYS:
[17:03] Coming Out as a Lesbian in the 1970's
[30:20] A Dark Moment: Suicide Attempt and Reflection
[52:58] The Curiosity to Try New Things
[59:12] It's Never Too Late
[01:02:43] The Healing Power of Horses and Equus Coaching
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